Chrissie Tully, a 93-year-old mother, continues her wait for a son born into a world of secrecy and shame, reflecting on Ireland's troubled past.
Her Lost Son: A Mother's Endless Vigil for Reunion

Her Lost Son: A Mother's Endless Vigil for Reunion
An elderly woman in County Galway holds onto hope as she remembers the son she never met.
In the quiet town of Loughrea, County Galway, stands a modest home where the poignant story of Chrissie Tully unfolds. The white stone house, adorned with lace curtains and a small Virgin Mary statue, has been her sanctuary for 76 years. Inside, a fragile yet resilient 93-year-old woman named Chrissie sits in her favorite orange chair, sharing space with her beloved dog, Rex, and surrounded by memories of a life marked by loss.
Chrissie’s journey began in 1949 when, as a youthful romantic, she fell deeply in love. The joy of impending motherhood quickly turned sour when the conservative values of mid-century Ireland resulted in her family disowning her, forcing her into exile at St. Mary’s Mother and Baby Home. This institution, emblematic of the Catholic Church's influence, left her with a son she would never cradle in her arms.
The plight of unwed mothers like Chrissie has haunted Ireland’s history. The Irish government has faced criticism, with various independent panels calling out the moral failings associated with such homes. While religious institutions have offered apologies for their roles, the shadow of these facilities still looms large and continues to resonate deeply within the fabric of Irish society.
As the years pass, Chrissie engages in daily routines filled with small tasks like praying and caring for her home, yet her heart remains tethered to the son she longs to meet. Each prayer is a silent plea, each passing day an act of unwavering hope that one day he may return to her. With each moment, she clings to the dream of fulfillment, a dream born from pain yet steeped in love.
Chrissie’s journey began in 1949 when, as a youthful romantic, she fell deeply in love. The joy of impending motherhood quickly turned sour when the conservative values of mid-century Ireland resulted in her family disowning her, forcing her into exile at St. Mary’s Mother and Baby Home. This institution, emblematic of the Catholic Church's influence, left her with a son she would never cradle in her arms.
The plight of unwed mothers like Chrissie has haunted Ireland’s history. The Irish government has faced criticism, with various independent panels calling out the moral failings associated with such homes. While religious institutions have offered apologies for their roles, the shadow of these facilities still looms large and continues to resonate deeply within the fabric of Irish society.
As the years pass, Chrissie engages in daily routines filled with small tasks like praying and caring for her home, yet her heart remains tethered to the son she longs to meet. Each prayer is a silent plea, each passing day an act of unwavering hope that one day he may return to her. With each moment, she clings to the dream of fulfillment, a dream born from pain yet steeped in love.