In brief
A sensational video of King Misuzulu kaZwelithini hurling insults at his third wife, Queen Nomzamo Myeni, went viral, leading to outrage across the country. The king issued a formal apology acknowledging the pain and embarrassment inflicted, stressing that the footage is a historical capture and not representative of current royal life. The incident has reignited discussions about polygamy, gender norms and domestic violence in South Africa’s highest‑profile monarchy. Meanwhile, social media users are divided – some decrying the king’s conduct, others condemning the queen for airing private matters publicly.
Video footage leaked on Wednesday shows Zulu King Misuzulu kaZwelithini angrily insulting his third wife, Queen Nomzamo Myeni, and threatening to oust her from the palace. In the clip, he accuses her of an affair and criticises her for leaving his house without permission. The queen silent until the end, then declared, ‘This is the life I live, day and night.’ The king’s office issued a statement later Friday, acknowledging the pain and embarrassment caused and saying the video was a historical capture that does not reflect current relationships within the royal household.
Context – King Misuzulu’s role is largely ceremonial, yet he wields considerable influence in the culturally significant Zulu monarchy. His reign follows a year‑long family dispute, and he inherits a budget of several million dollars from the government. The incident has triggered a social media backlash, with critics branding his behaviour as abusive and others condemning the queen for airing private disputes publicly.
South Africa faces the highest global rate of gender‑based violence, and the story has highlighted this ongoing crisis. Journalists argue the footage exposes internal conflict, while some argue it could be a staged performance for political gain. The government’s statement emphasised ‘reconciliation and reflection’ after the public relations issue.
Women in Zulu society are traditionally expected to submit to male authority, a practice that is increasingly challenged amid modern human‑rights debates. The controversy may prompt renewed scrutiny of polygamy, marriage custom, and the royal house’s public image. In the past, the king has faced legal threats over bigamy allegations linked to an earlier marriage.


